Censorship imposed by my self, but in truth the record shows yet again an insulting hunt in threads to insult
Bet on it, the reason people do not stay is here for all to see
Foxy,s views are her own and her right she has been here a very long time
Not unaware she is targeted even by some good posters, because she thinks
I truly question , while not wanting the harsh task a moderator has, why this man/woman is left to break the forums rules daily
New comers please know we are not all like that and we welcome your views

Spot-on, Belly !

Dear NNS,

Thank You for your very thoughtful summary.
It is very perceptive, measured,
and much appreciated. The art of reasoned,
intelligent argument is a skill not easily
acquired. However whether we encounter
a disagreement at home, work, at a party,
or on a discussion
forum such as this one, it is always wise to
think before we speak or write or post.

No one likes or supports an abusive, illogical,
debater. I was raised to have the aim of
behaving with respect towards others and to
encourage this in all people.

Dear Joe,

Totally agree. Belly is a very compassionate and
caring human being worth of our respect.

Thanks Foxy regret some are self centered and that leaves them out side the mainstream
Not sure the thread got the answers but it highlighted a very real problem
I still yearn for a new comers thoughts and in put

Dear Belly,

We can't control how people behave on this
forum but we can control how we react to their behavior.
I regret deeply some of the mistakes I've made - but
I shall strive not to repeat them.

Also if we keep trying to maintain a high standard
in civility - I'm sure that this may attract more
people here. Especially younger voices. At least we
can try.

Belly,

The thing about joining OLO and having a nom de plume, is that you can write whatever you like in response to some idiot's assertion, like most of mine for example, and nobody knows who you are or who made that wise observation. So you may stimulate vital discussion, and god knows we always need that.

So I urge all people registered with OLO to exploit their anonymity to the full, throw your ideas into the ring and let loose the dogs of .... polite discussion :)

Cheers,

Joe