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What does being an Australian mean to you?
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Posted by Lexi, Sunday, 18 August 2013 7:28:33 PM
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What a great idea! My family apparently goes right back to the first fleet (in chains properly!). I was born in the Mallee but moved around a bit as dad was a chippie always on the move. We finally settled in a medium sized town in the west of Victoria where Mum and Dad had a building business that went belly up around the same time GST was introduced. Dad started working in the health system as a head of maintenance and engineering and has been there ever since. Growing up in a rural town was great and surprisingly culturally diverse. Everyone knows everyone and all are judged by their character not their looks or creed. If it where not for people coming to Australia from foreign shores we wouldn't have a lot of the health services, food or friendship we enjoy and are forever grateful. I think the "Aussie Spirt" is still alive and well in rural Aus where anyone who is willing to give it a go is more then welcome. Been Australian to me is putting in some effort, overcoming what seem to be impossible odds, leading a hand to those who need it and been able to laugh at ourselves. Like most Aussies I am "mongrel bred" with a splash of English, Irish, Scottish, German and goodness knows what else in the mix. To me looks and race can go jump, if your friendly, kind, cheerful and a little mad I will happily call you mate. And if we disagree? Well isn't that what Aus is about? We can "discuss" something til the cows come home, and be friends again tomorrow.
Posted by Bec_young mum of 2, Sunday, 18 August 2013 10:45:53 PM
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Dear Bec,
What a wonderful post. Thank You so much. You've certainly captured exactly what I feel about Australia. My parents were forced to leave Lithuania after World War II. They lived in displaced persons camps in Germany for several years before emigrating to Australia in 1949. After several years in holding camps my father managed to buy a small house near Parramatta - which is where I grew up. I was born in country NSW. My family is a bit of a mix as well. Lithuanian, Russian, German, English, and Scottish - with a recent addition from China. And my parents did the hard yards for all of us and instilled in us the right model to aspire to. Work hard, study hard, and the possibilities are endless. I can't imagine living anywhere else in the world. My in-laws are stud-farmers in country NSW (my son has a prize-winning bull named after him). Being Australian to me means believing in fairness, tolerance, and respect. My parents taught me the importance of service, mateship, and sacrifice. Which I've hopefully passed onto my children, and they'll do that to theirs. I love the diversity of this country, its one of the most unique and rewarding aspects of living here. I love the openess, the honesty with which we can say what we think. And I think we're lucky not only to have a home here, but also to hve found our own sense of belonging. Posted by Lexi, Sunday, 18 August 2013 11:20:59 PM
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Beening a Australian for me and my family is very very good as far as the country is so. But a lot of Aussie people are racist and treat anybody they don't like badly. Just look at all the poor boat people with no other place to go they pick here and end up with lots of bigots and racists. There are many racists on this forum even. Far tony people from the Liberal Party also. I reckon all politics should be banned and until they do that I'm not speaking any more about it on this forum. Even today all the discussions is about politics only, nothing else except this one. This is boring all the time. So no more for me until they Ban all politics from this forum only!
Posted by misanthrope, Monday, 19 August 2013 3:44:05 PM
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Lexi
Does it mean having you kids jobs stolen by imports that you weren't even asked if you wanted them here. Does it mean being bashed and raped by people from a continent where that is the order of the day. Does it mean having your religious beliefs trashed by people who believe that infidels should be killed on sight. Does it mean seeing certain cultures running small businesses without any belief in the Australian Taxation system. I fought wars in all of these countries as an Australian UN peacekeeper and I saw what these people are capable of. Now I see them here in Australia in the streets of a night and we are unarmed. Get real Lexi the world is not a patch of roses but Australia is a rosy patch ripe for the taking. Posted by chrisgaff1000, Monday, 19 August 2013 4:08:25 PM
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Dear misanthrope,
Thank You for coming into this discussion and I am sorry to hear that you're not going to have your say any longer because you're sick of politics. Many of us are tired of politics - but it is an election year, so inevitably this subject is going to be popular. But you can always start a new discussion yourself on any topic of your choice. You may be surprised to find how many other people agree with your take on things. Give it a go. That's another thing that's great about this country. You've got so many choices open to you. You don't have to be locked in to any particular stereotype and you've got the freedom to make your own way in your own time. We all have our biases - however I've spent most of my entire adult life here and I've never had a problem with being accepted. My parents came from another country, they explored things with new eyes, and automatically they saw things differently, but at the same time that's how we add something. We learn from each other. Anyway, I hope to see you posting in the future. It would be good to read what you have to say because I feel thay you've got a lot to contribute. Posted by Lexi, Monday, 19 August 2013 4:20:32 PM
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Dear Chris,
This discussion is about what being an Australian means to you. I'd like to hear from you on that subject. Posted by Lexi, Monday, 19 August 2013 4:30:43 PM
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We came here from Elbasan, and politics was not good at home. No choices or disagreements, no choice to pick anyone you like because government was what it was, nothing else. First English word we speak was corruption. Here also in Aussie, but also racism to. I no longer wish to hear or speak about politics on this Forum because like all politicians world all over including in Oz they promise everything but give nothing at all ? You are a friendly person it would seem by the words you say so thank you for being as friendly face on this Forum.
Posted by misanthrope, Monday, 19 August 2013 6:03:19 PM
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Dear Misanthrope,
So you're from Albania. I understand how difficult it must be to adapt to a new country. My parents fled Lithuania, which later was also occupied by the Soviet Union. They faced adjustment difficulties in this country and suffered from a sense of guilt at having left their people to continue the struggle against a repressive regime. However they found a greater physical freedom in Australia, in that their lives were no longer in danger, but the struggle they commenced with their conscience allowed them no spiritual freedom for a long time. Of course with time they became more confident -in their new society and they started families, bought homes, established and made a place for themselves. This will happen to you too. I'm sure when one day you return to Albania for the first time, you will be reminded of the reason you left. The first trip back is a common turning point, after which many people become more content, and determined to establish their lives in Australia. Thank You for sharing and I wish you every happiness in this country. May you find your sense of belonging here, as my family has done. Posted by Lexi, Monday, 19 August 2013 6:47:42 PM
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dear lexie..what does australian..mean..to me
austr-ALIEN*..but thats..cause i tend to self immolation via alienation my parental s..left the rebuilt.. europe..when.the workers were no longer needed.. its funny..how mother was taught cooking/home keeping/bookkeeping typing and english..etc..my father taught to fit/turn/weld..but in his heart wanted to be in sales. after my mothers/mother's died..the thinking was send her..off to set up home..she had family..in oz..was invited to work on the farm..and in due time hit our shores..got put on a train..and dumped in the middle of nowhere..to eventually walk into a darkened farm..with an oh its you..they moved in.. what does australia mean to me..a prison an alien place..where i mostly know immediate family no aunties/uncles grandparents..nieces nephews..etc..a stranger ina strange land the great southlands the newe holland..[new netherlands.].in the nether regions.. the never/never..ever ..or as the dutch..named it..VAN DIE Mense land..[of the peoples land]..[mense also..can be taken as MENSE[god] thus..land of the god's people.. as a stretch..as named by my people stretched more..my true people stand..one foot on the water/one foot..on the land.. we built ourselves..as interposed against my living on others lands.. gods-peoples-lands.. yet named/renamed..terror/nullious..australia..etc and..land rights..the land..*does have rights when it emerged..from the waters of the deep naw*.mate im a stranger among strangers cast out of..our own home lands and culture the place of my own ab-origon-ality..the place where im the indigenous where i am..in my correct skin group..land where i save my own culture..not alone others dream times yet if i return..ancestral 'home'..there i would feel even more outcast. the sins..of the father..why visit them..upon the kids? australia is a colon-y.. under the armed forces;;of a foreign colonizing power [police/army/navy air..etc.]all*..swear loyalty..to hrh..heirs suck-ceasers.. not australia not the constitution.. not even..to serve the land..and its people..but a figure head/hairs/sukkers.. sorry..feeling a bit blue assassins in our suburbs..oh dear[tv] ' lets go shooty..some blacks..or poison their flour.. or give them small-pox riddled blankets..dry out their water holes..infect their little ginny..with tb/vd and tv.. worse..it was done first in europa..serbs poles jews etc..endlessly i say send the kids back home..to discover who they should/could/would have been.. Posted by one under god, Monday, 19 August 2013 7:19:38 PM
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Dearest Lexi,
You have such a good heart, I wish there were more Australians like you. It's no coincidence that your forebears came from all over. I think that's the Australian experience, and over the past generation the process of mixing and hybridisation and change seems to have accelerated, and all for the good. Over the past year and a half, I've been using public transport far more than I ever have done for fifty years. In SA, it's free for old-f@rts like me, 9.00 am to 3.00 pm. But everybody should try it - you see a very different Australia from what you experience going from A to B in cars. I have to say I really enjoy it, you see so many people from god knows where. I'm envious of our grand-children and great-grand-children - what a variety of partners they will be choosing from, and what beautiful children they will be having. One thing that has struck me is that, inevitably, unavoidably, all those new migrants are living in a multi-cultural world: one in which they are not a majority, in which every day - and for life - they have to negotiate and interact with people from other backgrounds, at school, on the streets, in the work-place and in their social lives. Anglos such as myself can stay, to an extent, cocooned in an Anglo world, driving from A to B, but out there a different Australia is evolving. Hallelujah ! Thanks, Lexi, you're a treasure. Love, Joe www.firstsources.info Posted by Loudmouth, Monday, 19 August 2013 9:23:18 PM
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Dear OUG,
Thank You for being so open and honest and sharing your experience with us on this forum. You write so uniquely - and always manage to impart quite a bit of wisdom. From my experience - I've found that our neighbours have become life-long friends - and I love the wide-open spaces that are so much a part of this land. Now living in Melbourne, we have such a great choice of beaches, rainforests, and countrysides, where you can get away from it all. The beauty, especially in the Dandenong Ranges is breathtaking. I know that my father who ended up working double-shifts in the Good-Year tyre factory (to pay off the house and our education) and died of a massive coronary at the age of 52 - he always spoke of Australia with love and gratitude. Often also - many children of migrants, who had previously denied their cultural heritage, as they grew older find an increasing interest in precisely those things they had rejected. The interest of people in studying their family trees and the overall popularity of genealogy in libraries - is growing rapidly. I know that for some people it really is difficult to relate to new surroundings - and for many it is a culture shock. However although most migrants lived in hostels or "reception centres," moving into their first homes was an important psychological step in the building of a new life. Dear Joe (Loudmouth), Thank You for coming into this discussion and for your lovely words. You're a caring and compassionate man, and you always manage to put a smile on my face. I know what you mean about travelling by public transport. I grew up in the Western suburbs of Sydney and used to catch a bus into Parramatta, then a train into the city, then another bus to either uni, or work. And the experiences on public transport, especially during peak hours is something I can still remember and I've told my children many stories about those times. They were "golden days" - that I remember with love. Posted by Lexi, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 10:27:53 AM
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lexe/quote..<<..massive coronary at the age of 52>>
yeah my dad too.. never lived long enough to retire [we*..one in 5 that die..before collecting super..is why the system..works]..living long enough..to borrow back*..our super..via credit cards..and insane usury rates..in lue of a working wage <<many children..as they grew older find an increasing interest in precisely those things they had rejected.>>.. especially in those secret things our parents rejected[or simply didnt talk about] a fertile thread that would be..the unspeakable topic <<<..people in studying their family trees and the overall popularity of genealogy in libraries - is growing rapidly.>> mainly cause the intel-adgencies want US..to join their info dots..info is power same same facebook..music libraries..sites etc..all Intel..[and why i was reluctant to write anything..plus it feels like gossip for me.] <<difficult to relate to new surroundings>>..not for me..place = nature the relating is personal..men seem to be competing to be alpha male..[even if rejecting the obvious method/means]..and women who knows i missed the socialization..thing ..peers do <<moving into their first homes was an important psychological step>>..but not near as important as learning to relate..with other..and i hate sports..gossip..drinking drunks movie stars faulse godheads ..but i bring the thread down. bless your open heart lex cheers dear Posted by one under god, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 11:33:43 AM
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Dear OUG,
You've got the knack of putting your own take on things and doing it so well. It's a gift. You remind me of the following poem that I remember reading years ago - by Digby Wolfe. I liked it so much that I made a copy of it and will now share it with you: "Here's to the kids who are different: the kids who don't always get A's, the kids who have ears twice the size of their peers', or noses that go on for days. Here's to the kids who are different, the kids who are just out of step, the kids they all tease, who have cuts on their knees and whose sneakers are constantly wet. Here's to the kids who are different, the kids with a mischievous streak, for when they have grown, as history has shown, it's their difference that makes them unique." Take care, unique man. Posted by Lexi, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 1:30:40 PM
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U 2 lexe
your one great sheila but even would..be a great bloke.. you live in the real world..which is as i see...as the joke..real-world..what does that mean god didnt make australia.. nor the never-lands..[nor nederland][nor holland].. nor any other state or country..by name..but by nature* i see my nature reflected clearly..from my dutch family..[in which include every dutchie i have ever met].. the fruit falls not far from its parental tree..generally speaking].. but i feel..by virtue..of being effectively outcast from our ancestoral home..strangers to our own..if you will..cerates the opening for lesser bonds.. [like espri-de'gore]..nationalism or the old blue school-tie..or mate/shift..or comrade in arms..the anzac spirit.. or even dire-versions divisions..of age sex race belief or non even non ..absent or wrong belief.. [or so..i feel to believe... at the time of writing] anyhow me mate..at heart gotta zip me zipper..on my ever more wordy art Posted by one under god, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 2:01:13 PM
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sorry to keep going
but this might relate http://rinf.com/alt-news/breaking-news/what-does-it-mean-to-be-an-outsider-in-a-capitalist-society/60344/ <<..This trajectory isn’t entirely surprising.>> <<In the last two generations, centrist culture in the United States has taken on and been enriched by novel, countercultural ideas, movements, and products, including civil rights, workplace safety laws, community antismoking campaigns, “green” architecture and cars, and the widening acceptance of gays (even in the military).>> ie generic identifiers/team spirit we may link into..inlue..insures a weak replacement for that we left behind..that which shapeth the 'man'..peers <<>>And the digital has altered what’s inside the categories “outsider,” “indie culture,” and “niche market”: ..the Web has increased visibility at the margins because every rebel or amateur can publish or post his or her opinion. There is also a chance of anyone’s output going viral. That in itself changes what is considered outsider or marginal and how “fringe culture” operates:..alternative or subcultures no longer assume their messages are for the few or the like-minded. The idea of a mainstream is, at the very least, a useful cliché. Yet it becomes less of a cliché when we recognize that all cultures—the establishment culture included—are dynamic.>>.. or something like that the dynamics can threaten..those who only have their groupies..their club..their cliche* Posted by one under god, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 2:40:38 PM
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Dear OUG,
I'm a firm believer that our present is linked with our past. I shared my thoughts on this topic previously: http://forum.onlineopinion.com.au/thread.asp?discussion=5648 (back in Feb. 2013). I quoted from the Lithuanian poet, Al Zolynas: "I come from a tribe of nature worshippers, pantheists, believers in faeries, forest sprites, and wood nymphs, who heard devils in their windmills, met them in the woods, cloven-hooved and dapper gentlemen of the night, who named the god of thunder, who praised and glorified bread, dark rye waving waist-high out of the earth, and held it sacred, wasting not a crumb, who spent afternoons mushrooming in forests of pine, fir, and birch, who transformed Jesus from his wooden cross, transformed him into a wood-carved, worrying peasant, raised him on a wooden pole above the crossroads where he sat with infinite patience in rain and snow, wooden legs apart, wooden elbows on wooden knees, wooden chin in wooden hand, worrying and sorrowing for the world ..." "These people who named their sons and daughters after amber, rue, fir tree, dawn, storm, are the only people I know who have a diminuitive form for God Himself - Dievulis, "God-my-little-buddy." "Any wonder I catch myself speaking to trees, flowers, bushes - these eucalyptus so far from Northers Europe - or that I bend down to the earth, gather pebbles, acorns, leaves, boles, bring them home, enshrine them on mantelpieces or above porcelain fixtures in corners, any wonder I grow nervous in rooms and must step outside and touch a tree, or sink my toes in the dirt, or watch the birds fly by." I have a strong kinship with the author. As I stated earlier - we're from the same ancestry. It has made me the person I am today. For that I am grateful. Posted by Lexi, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 3:05:48 PM
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Thank you to Lexi for the kind words but still no more politics because it causes unhappy people because of corruption and argument and abuse and racism and other bad things. My word is Oz is nice and great country to me and all my family and you are a nice person to.
Posted by misanthrope, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 3:28:07 PM
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Thank you, Lexi, OUG is spot-on ;)
Yeah, I remember, when I was a kid and our mum was trying to keep one step ahead of our dad, we must have gone to a dozen schools, and all on our own, by public transport. When I was seven and my brother was five, we would catch the bus from Chullora to Strathfield railway station, get the train to Homebush, and get the bus from there to Homebush Infant School. And back again. Well, for a few weeks, until we had to move school again. To Gymea Bay. Then Chester Hill. Then Penrith. And in those days, every single person we saw would have been European, usually Anglo. It's a different, and in many ways a better, world now. I don't live in that area now, so I really wouldn't know for sure. But every social change carries problems with it, and social differentiation may be far greater now than then. But this is now, that was then. Different dynamics, different world, different issues. Love and best wishes, Joe Posted by Loudmouth, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 4:29:11 PM
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Dear Joe (Loudmouth),
I remember Summer Sundays, starting out early with the entire family by public transport to Circular Quay and catching the Manly ferry and heading for the beach. Spending all day at Manly and coming home late afternoon burnt to a crisp - but every so proud sporting a different colour on Monday morning to show off with. That was the life. Spring-rolls for lunch was another highlight at Manly as was the ferry-ride there and back. Strathfield station I used to know like the palm of my hand. I'd change trains there for Ashfield. My second job was at Ashfield. I'd like to go back for a visit sometime in the future and see how Parramatta and the entire surrounding area has changed. People tell me I won't recognise it. But I'd like to see for myself. Again, Thanks Joe, for being a part of this discussion. Take care. Posted by Lexi, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 6:28:01 PM
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Lexi
You forgot the Fun Pier and Aquarium at Manly wharf and Luna Park on the ocean beach side. My uncle was an Olympic swimmer and Captain of the North Steyne SLSC (same name as the ferry that took you there)and my grandmother was fiery red headed green eyed taskmaster who amassed a fortune letting pokey rooms in Redfern to drunks and derelicts for 10 shillings a week cash and build a mansion overlooking to ocean up on the hill where us kids could only go to be taught by her private tutors while the adults pissed up on the lawns. Posted by chrisgaff1000, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 7:39:48 PM
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Dear Chris,
Welcome back. And, Thanks for sharing. How could I have forgotten the Fun Pier, the Aquarium, and Luna Park - Manly wharf holds so many happy memories for me. Did you know that I'm green-eyed (although they do change colour with my moods) and a red-head as well? You must have had one heck of a childhood and your family certainly sounds interesting. Manly ferries were such a joy. I loved the trips there abd back - sun-tanned, windblown, the incredible sights of the ocean, blue-skies - sheer magic for a little kid. The beautiful harbourside homes seemed like a different world - a great escape - if only from a distance, but one could dream. And where would life be without our dreams? Once again, Thank You for contributing to this discussion. Posted by Lexi, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 9:51:37 PM
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Lexi,
A little secret. When I was twelve my younger brother and I stole a Manly Ferry from the Blues Point Jetty. I was in the steering house and he was in the engine room (steam). He turned some wheel and the thing took off breaking the huge mooring ropes. Together we manager to turn the thing to head up the harbor towards the heads under the bridge. The water police caught up with us, boarded and took control and we got the hiding of our lives. I lived above Luna Park and my bedroom window looked out over the Big Dipper. My girlfriends father was the caretaker of Luna Park so I always had rolls of ride tickets. I used to train in the Olympic Pool (32 laps, a mile) every morning and afternoon usually with Jon and Ilsa Conrads, Judy Joy Davies and Dawn Frazer. I swam in the 1956 Melbourne Olympics but got knocked out in the heats. No drugs then. Posted by chrisgaff1000, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 10:26:40 PM
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Chris,
i was in love with Ilse Conrads, like most of the boys in my school, I'm sure. God, she was gorgeous. How's she doing ? Joe Posted by Loudmouth, Tuesday, 20 August 2013 11:08:29 PM
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Ah yes Lexi I too knew Strathfield, but it was the sound of my Morgan +4s exhaust echoing off the walls of the railway bridge as I drove under it, not the station, that I knew.
I was there often, when I lived to the south, & kept my Brabham F2 in a workshop to the north. I rarely got away with less than 4 nights a week working on it. We lived in Ryde for a little while not long after the end of the war. We made the trek to Harbord beach with friends in a 1930 Dodge, a great big square butter box of a thing, a few times. I doubt it could get over 30 MPH, & was none too sure around corners, so it took what seemed like hours. About half the trip was through open countryside. Hard to believe today. What great times, with a rented blow up rubber surfer plane, what more could a kid want? I preferred that Australia, where a boss or a factory worker could buy a home, & raise a family on one wage. When income tax was 7.25%, & you paid 3.5% interest on your house loan. Now we are keeping so many bludgers, welfare & bureaucrat, that taxes are ridiculous, & even two wages are often not enough. I am not all that impressed with what we have done with our Australia. Posted by Hasbeen, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 12:22:43 AM
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Loudmouth,
Dead, both dead. She went first with cancer and he a year later from obesity and diabetes. I actually beat her once, never the brother. Murry Rose was her lover then and we were all jealous as all hell. Posted by chrisgaff1000, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 8:14:33 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that, about both of the Conrads. They were so beautiful to watch swimming. Vale.
Joe Posted by Loudmouth, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 8:57:14 AM
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Dear Chris,
Wow, what a great life. Being part of history, taking part in the Olympics, and knowing those sporting icons. Ever thought of writing a book? I remember that Jon and Ilsa Conrads, Murray Rose, Dawn Fraser were all heroes to my parents. Dad was a sporting fanatic - loved the swimmers - and Jon and Ilsa were so personal to him ( being of Latvian backgrounds). He looked upon them as relatives. Dear Hasbeen, Your cars sound wonderful. You must have had lots of girlfriends? ;-) Yes, I guess those were the days of easier home ownership. However both my parents had to work. We were "latchkey kids," and I was the "mum." I had to look after my younger brothers, the house, and at times practically the entire neighbourhood. I learned to cook very early, and my brother's mates used to come over for a feed on a regular basis. Dear Joe (Loudmouth), You've always had good taste in women by the sound of it. My dad would agree with you regarding Ilsa. Actually he was a great admirer of both Ilsa and her brother. I'm sorry to learn that they've both passed on. I wonder if they ever married or had children? Posted by Lexi, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 9:12:01 AM
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That girlfriend thing is a myth Lexi, part of the one about the rich racing car driver, or yachtsman.
The girls soon wake up that the man might have been rich, if he hadn't spent it all on the car/boat etc. What they learn very quickly is that he has spent all his money, & spends too much time working on the thing, to be any use as a boyfriend. Like a lot of other things, it may look exotic from a distance, but the romance disappears very quickly when you get up close. Posted by Hasbeen, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 10:58:13 AM
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Dear Hasbeen,
There's nothing more attractive than a self-made man. A man who works with his hands doing what he loves. And to me it sounded like you're precisely that sort of guy. As for riches? Riches come in finding somone who satisfies your emotional apetite. Someone who's sensitive and strong and tender. Tenderness is the rarest of qualities. I think that you're under-estimating yourself and your female friends of which I'm sure there must have been many. Posted by Lexi, Wednesday, 21 August 2013 1:45:58 PM
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Morning Lexi,
A while since I posted here. I was raised in an orphanage, left when I was 15 and crossed the country to where I did not know anyone but still found Oz a great place to grow up in. It has been good to me over the years and I hope I have put some back. I have seen a bit of the world in my work and despite our crazy politicians it is still a tremendous place to live. Take it easy. SD Posted by Shaggy Dog, Thursday, 22 August 2013 8:04:51 AM
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Dear SD,
So glad to see you posting again and Thank You for taking the time to come into this discussion. I can't even begin to imagine how hard it must have been for you growing up in an orphanage. You sound so positive - which shows your strength of character. And it sounds as if all's well that ends well. We are lucky to be living in a country that still gives us opportunities and choices. And even luckier to have people like you in it. ;-) All The Best. Take care. Posted by Lexi, Thursday, 22 August 2013 10:21:13 AM
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Lexi,
Life is what you make of it. It is not served up equally for sure but you have no choice but to do the best you can with your serve. Australia is one of the best countries to do this without a doubt. As regard an orphanage upbringing. In my opinion a group of children under duress is possibly one of the most moral, ethical and caring groups you could ever encounter. It was a privileged childhood being surrounded by such an honest and straight up group of boys. Children pick up all the bad traits from adults. SD Posted by Shaggy Dog, Thursday, 22 August 2013 1:56:42 PM
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Loudmouth, "..i was in love with Ilse Conrads"
I know it is just a slip but make that a 'k' as in Konrads. chrisgaff1000 mentioned Murray Rose, who would also be one of our greatest sportspeople. Like many from back when, he was a gentleman as well. It is rather poor in my view that the donkeys in the media are forever promoting cricketer Sir Donald Bradman. Sure he was a great cricketer. This is not to criticise him. However there are many other worthwhile sportspeople who excelled and were model citizens for youth to follow. Maybe the sports jocks of the media promote cricket because there is money in it through advertising and sponsorships. That is also why little is heard of the victorious women's cricket team ATM. Personally I'd say that Heather McKay is one of Australia's greatest sportspeople. Yet you never hear of the woman squash champion who was unbeaten for years, winning sixteen consecutive British Open titles and the first World's Women's Open (1979). Posted by onthebeach, Thursday, 22 August 2013 2:32:01 PM
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onthebeach,
spent a couple of years living in a state home at Mittagong as a child after the Irish Catholic/Union purges in Sydney stole thousands of catholic kids from their parents and tried to turn them into Protestants. Don Bradman used to come to the home on weekends and teach us to play cricket. He always reminded me of a "closet" headmaster. Sorry the English "C" is the Baltic "K" Posted by chrisgaff1000, Thursday, 22 August 2013 3:41:44 PM
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chrisgaff1000,
Thank you for your comment on Don Bradman. He is one of the greats. My criticism is of the media hacks who are too lazy to find more examples to share the load. There are many men and women who provide a sterling service to the community and to children. It is a pity that blood sells and the media scour the world to find examples to serve up to the hysterics and risk copy cats. Instead of providing balanced reporting, which to my way of thinking is informing people of what is going on around them, which is overwhelmingly good. The media is cheap and nasty Much of the claimed 'independent' stuff on the Net is even worse, absolute trash. Posted by onthebeach, Thursday, 22 August 2013 4:02:17 PM
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Dear OTB,
Thank You for coming into this discussion and for correcting the spelling of Konrads. Fancy my missing that? If you feel so inclined - I'd love to learn more of your background? It sound like you've got an interesting story to tell. Now at least I know that you love cricket. My dad did as well. Dear SD, Life is indeed what you make of it. I was taught that even though we're all thrown curve-balls its how we react that matters. And to treat obstacles as stepping-stones has worked well for me - thus far. Fingers-crossed that it will continue to do so. I was diatgnosed with cancer a few years back. However after my operation - its now been well over the time limit set and so far so good. Dear Chris, You should write a book on your life. I would buy a copy - definitely! Posted by Lexi, Thursday, 22 August 2013 4:34:13 PM
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onthebeach,
The media in nothing more than an extension of the entertainment industry there to serve the masses with what they crave and profit in the meantime. Online news has am element of reality and fact that leaves the print media far far behind. Posted by chrisgaff1000, Thursday, 22 August 2013 7:33:08 PM
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It looks like this discussion has now run its course
so I'd like to once again Thank everyone who was kind enough to share their experiences with us. I've enjoyed this discussion and look forward to many others with you on this forum. Take care and All The Best - Posted by Lexi, Friday, 23 August 2013 9:40:04 AM
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anyhow..noted this from your ancestral poem
<<..who praised and glorified bread, dark rye>> rye bread..i think is the base upon which..lsd is cultured dark rye..<<waving waist-high out of the earth, and held it sacred,>> many authers of old..used stimulant;s to inspire many a culture..holds the means..to induce out of body experiences sacred <<..wasting not a crumb, who spent afternoons mushrooming>>[other dimension opening substances come to mind] i only mention it..n0w the topic is closed [plausible deny ability] anyhow..all that natural inspiration..did bear valid fruits ..<<<..in forests of pine, fir, and birch, who transformed Jesus from his wooden cross, transformed him into a wood-carved, worrying peasant, raised him on a wooden pole above the crossroads where he sat with infinite patience in rain and snow, wooden legs apart, wooden elbows on wooden knees, wooden chin in wooden hand, worrying and sorrowing for the world ...">>.. anyhow i go to..consider..your now closed topic http://forum.onlineopinion.com.au/thread.asp?discussion=5648&page=0 <<..You can see it without a psychotic condition..*(Try that with those other gods).>> altered reality? <<..How it looks..[envisions].. is only limited by your imagination.>> or how many mush-rooms....dwell in our minds [i have never..tripped'..but note the stuff we repress.. often comes out with simulations and stimulants..of many sorts] <<..Everyone can have one.>> anyhow..i go..to CONSIDER lexies..LITTLE WOODEN GOD http://forum.onlineopinion.com.au/thread.asp?discussion=5648&page=0 i expect i may have further opinion..re prev topic but feel..this one is far from over* Posted by one under god, Friday, 23 August 2013 2:03:42 PM
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Dear OUG,
In spite of a history of foreign domination, Lithuania possesses many customs and traditions that merit fostering and preservation as part of the ethnic mosaic in our free world. Lithuania, situated on the shores of the Baltic Sea, was noted for its luscious forests, beautiful orchards, plentiful lakes and fertile soil. Grain crops, potatoes, and dairy products were the main produce. It isn't surprising that these food figure prominently in Lithuanian cooking. Lithuanian cheese, "suris", was widely used in many dishes. Fruits, always plentiful in summer, were enjoyed in all kinds of jams, preserves and cakes all year round. Many potato dishes like "cepelinai", "kugelis," cabbage, both sweet and sour, were the staple vegetables. Root vegetables were not to be overlooked and of-course the beloved wild mushrooms, particularly "baravykai" were used with everything. Lithuanians were great lovers of bread. Sour dough rye breads, and breads with caraway or poppy seeds are still very popular. Pork, domestic and wild fowl, were the main meats. "Koseliena" (jellied pork) was loved anytime. Yogurt and sour cream were used extensively and even today, Lithuanians are generous with their use. Sweets were mostly enjoyed on occasions like holidays, weddings, name's days, and all other special events. They were often rich and extravagant, both in ingredients and appearance. Cakes in particular were very showy. One such cake is the "raguolis" which often decorates wedding tables. Other cakes were made in the form of animals "ezuikas" or native plants "grybai". Through the interaction of various cultures in Lithuania's cosmopolitan cities, today Lithuanians cook a great number of varying dishes. The traditional foods themselves vary with each district in Lithuania and have been further adapted to meet modern cookery, while retaining their original characteristics. BTW: The wooden god - is part of Lithuanian folk-art - and can be found along many roads - in rural Lithuania. He's part of the much loved country scenery. Posted by Lexi, Friday, 23 August 2013 2:39:26 PM
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i was wondering..
what the little wo*oden gods name was..[oden..came to mind] but..instead found this <<..A dievdirbys ("god carver", plural: dievdirbiai) is a Lithuanian wood carver who creates statues of Jesus and the Christian saints.[1] The art is closely related to kryždirbystė (cross-carving), listed among Masterpieces of the Oral and Intangible Heritage of Humanity by UNESCO. The statues are carved according to artistic conventions developed over the centuries following Lithuania's adoption of Christianity. They are displayed along roadsides, in cemeteries, and in chapels or churches. The most popular figures are of Saint Roch, the Pietà, John of Nepomuk, Saint Casimir, the Nativity, Pensive Christ (known as rūpintojėlis), Saint Florian, Saint George, Saint Anthony, Saint Agatha, and Saint Isidore. Using basic tools, the sculptures were carved out of linden wood, or occasionally oak, and sometimes painted. Along with three-dimensional sculptures, relief and bas-relief were also cultivated. The works decorate the altars of rural churches, of portable church altars, processional banners, aediculas, dwellings, and barns. The Stations of the Cross often feature these works as well.>> there are 4 pictures..very pretty http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dievdirbys the search also turned up Lithuanian..* tongue twisters http://www.google.com.au/url?q=http://www.uebersetzung.at/twister/lt.htm&sa=U&ei=AO8WUqfWJbCaiAfS6oHYBw&ved=0CCEQFjAC&sig2=F9QO6TK-PgCbI02KwNWqSw&usg=AFQjCNGLeBXUOnt7lbqU7tJyB-1ivTPBng Lithuanian boys names http://www.google.com.au/url?q=http://www.babynamespedia.com/search/m/lithuanian&sa=U&ei=LvAWUo_4H6XxiAfDy4GwCA&ved=0CCsQFjAE&sig2=WeYV87pKXdhyck5QQONAOg&usg=AFQjCNFsnEaGWwUQOTqH4WxzAVwmxcoiQw Lithuanian mythology http://www.google.com.au/url?q=http://www.crvp.org/book/Series04/IVA-17/chapter_iv.htm&sa=U&ei=LvAWUo_4H6XxiAfDy4GwCA&ved=0CDMQFjAG&sig2=9Qwp3155IGv1y_ueNxSxHQ&usg=AFQjCNGYtbs9qNW4-TpkcvN5e0hBcEVzgQ indeed a fertile field [unlike..the wood god thread].. never the less producer?..[who began that thread..sounds interesting]..made a good comment..at the 'how?'../THREAD..OF HOW MONEY WORKS.. anyhow cheers..from johan sorry re caps/..thick fingers Posted by one under god, Friday, 23 August 2013 3:23:57 PM
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Dear OUG,
Thank You for contributing so much on Lithuania. For taking the time to do the research, and for caring. We have a little wooden God (carved in Lithuania) that a relative brought back as a gift hanging on a wall just inside the front entrance of our home. We also have a tall wooden chapel-post, with figurines that a Lithuanian artist created for us (the kind that you see in Lithuania by roadsides where people stop and pray). It's very artistic and stands in the corner of my study. My son wants to inherit it. It is very lovely and all hand-carved. We treasure it. Again, Thank You. You have a good heart Johan. Posted by Lexi, Friday, 23 August 2013 6:08:49 PM
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Is that all you've got to say?
How about adding something to this discussion - otherwise go peddle your wares elsewhere - you're in the wrong place. Posted by Lexi, Friday, 23 August 2013 9:51:50 PM
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being australian..to me
allows me to dare to ask..important questions ok..two questions. 1...Why would Syria's Assad..*invite United Nations chemical weapons inspectors to Syria,..*then launch a chemical weapons attack against women and children..*on the very day they arrive,..*just miles from where they are staying? 2...If Assad..were going to use chemical weapons,..*wouldn't he use them against the hired mercenary army..trying to oust him? What does he gain..attacking women and children? Nothing! The gain..is all on the side of the US Government/israel ..desperate to get the war agenda..going again. http://whatreallyhappened.com/WRHARTICLES/syriabovine.php http://benswann.com/u-s-trained-fighters-now-crossing-from-jordan-into-syria/ http://www.zerohedge.com/news/2013-08-23/pentagon-preparing-cruise-missile-launch-against-syria http://www.jpost.com/Middle-East/US-military-reportedly-updates-list-of-potential-targets-in-Syria-as-pressure-mounts-on-Obama-324086 As I type these words,..US trained..and equipped forces..are already across the border into Syria,..*and US naval forces are sailing into position..to launch a massive cruise missile attack into Syria..that will surely kill more Syrians..than were claimed to have died in the chemical attack. http://rinf.com/alt-news/breaking-news/hagel-says-us-ready-for-war-on-syria/62305/ Obviously,..we cannot stop this madness. The US Government..is listening to Wall Street and Israel..and cares not what the American people think. But what We The People can do, must do, is send a message.,.to the world that we do not believe the war-starting lies..by the US Government. We know this is a repeat..of the same lies we were told..about Saddam's nuclear weapons http://12160.info/video/busted-u-s-backs-false-flag-chemical-attack-in-syria?xg_source=activity What this means http://www.jpost.com/Middle-East/Obama-US-is-now-facing-a-more-abbreviated-time-frame-on-decision-for-Syria-Egypt-response-324048 is that Obama realizes..that the claim that Assad gassed Syrian civilians..on the very day UN chemical weapons inspectors arrived simply makes no sense,..and if Assad were really stupid enough to do that,..why didn't he gas the hired mercenarie..instead of women and children? http://rinf.com/alt-news/breaking-news/voice-of-russia-news-of-chemical-weapons-attack-in-syria-published-one-day-before-massacre/62138/ But this next war..for the bankers is on,..as Le Figaro is reporting that US-supported fighters..started entering Syria on the 17th,..three days before the gas attack! http://whatreallyhappened.com/WRHARTICLES/lieofthecentury.php http://www.globalresearch.ca/obama-doj-asks-court-to-grant-immunity-to-george-w-bush-for-iraq-war/5346637 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtcpB7flZBY http://www.washingtonpost.com/world/israel-strikes-terror-site-in-lebanon-after-rocket-fire/2013/08/23/240b7d2c-0bc8-11e3-9941-6711ed662e71_story.html all wars are bankers wars http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5hfEBupAeo4 hey..true blue..is it me an you http://www.jpost.com/Middle-East/Report-Syrian-rebel-forces-trained-by-West-are-moving-towards-Damascus-324033 So Obama is going to try to legitimize..this premptive invasion http://www.shtfplan.com/headline-news/report-war-looms-hundreds-of-american-troops-and-cia-operatives-have-entered-syria_08232013 by gong to the UN,..which will fail..as Russia will likely veto any security council resolution authorizing military action,.. at which point Obama will "go it alone"...meaning..sending more American kids to kill people who dare sell their oil for currencies other than the US dollar. Posted by one under god, Saturday, 24 August 2013 7:31:45 PM
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People,
At least this ratbag "one under god" will be pleased to see that another ratbag named Rudd is reading our forces to help firing those big bang bangs at those naughty Arabs. This time he wants to be sure the reports of bad weapons is true. Funny I always thought all weapons were bad. Posted by chrisgaff1000, Sunday, 25 August 2013 12:35:31 PM
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i was watching kosshies angels
http://au.tv.yahoo.com/sunrise/video/watch/10465342/ the 2 de story was re 4 blackguys finding a shop..*unlocked..[via a computer lock..malfunction] they found what they wanted.. left payment on the counter..and left ..closing the door now that..is real..aussie spirit ps..*the shopkeeper gave each a 50$..gift voucher again..true aussie spirit*..allround.. sadly this is all that google search reveals http://forums.anandtech.com/showthread.php?p=35427409 more sad is ..vidio search.. only turned up..the usual..suspect propaganda it is unaustralian..i rekon but it should be up soon cvause..thats the aussie way at the koshy angelss link Posted by one under god, Thursday, 29 August 2013 9:03:34 AM
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Chris,
OUG has been here for yonks. He posts a little more originally that most of us around here. He's not abusive and he has a view to offer. You are not compelled to read his posts. If you don't wish to, I suggest you scroll past them. ...and perhaps refrain from abusing him...... Posted by Poirot, Thursday, 29 August 2013 9:09:11 AM
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Spot on, Poirot :)
I'll bet you never expected me to say that :) Love, Joe Posted by Loudmouth, Thursday, 29 August 2013 4:28:35 PM
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its up
http://au.tv.yahoo.com/sunrise/video/watch/18701173/honest-shoppers-leave-money-behind/ ohand kevinis live till 7pm on..reddit..taking on all comers http://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/1lbe0s/i_am_kevin_rudd_the_prime_minister_of_australia/ but i cant [dont want to]..figure reddit out Posted by one under god, Thursday, 29 August 2013 5:50:55 PM
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What is needed is some bi-partisanship. On the whole there's very little to choose between the two parties other than some differences in approach. There is no doubt that both have the best interests of the country at heart.
This nation has been in campaign mode since January and I for one will be very glad when the election is over and the real work of running the country can begin. I'd like to see some changes made to both parties policies around refugees and some serious efforts made within our international partnerships to reduce the conflicts that produce the refugees. I've previously discussed the role of religion and that may well yet be the key. All of the world's religions claim to be primarily about peace, so let's get them involved in talking to each other instead of fighting over points of theology that are really just overlays. Let's try to work out the genuinely intractable differences around control of resources that are at the heart of the disputes and reduce the refugees at the source. Let people travel for the experience and adventure, not because they have to leave home or face persecution and worse. I think that Bob Katter's ideas about regional and interior development are interesting too and could be a nice fit with a more nuanced approach to the refugee problem. On education I lean a little each way. The ALP model is good, but needs to provide good support to principals to allow well-informed decision-making without too much guesswork. The LNP model is typically cautious and I like the emphasis on teacher quality and values. A less rushed approach to tertiary study would also be on mu wishlist. Give people time to properly fit their study into a framework rather than insist they simply learn facts without much context. [cont] Posted by Antiseptic, Friday, 30 August 2013 10:18:29 AM
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What does all that have to do with being an Australian?
Well, it's about a fair go and mateship and letting people find their feet. It's about making people welcome and allowing them to participate in their own way. A friend who immigrated as a child said to me recently that he loved this country because it has no restrictions on what you can become, whereas his country limits what you can do based on who and what you know. I reckon all our politicians need to keep that in mind. Give people a fair chance and help when they need it and they'll do well. Reward exceptional qualities exceptionally well, but let people work out their own way of fitting into their skin, whatever colour or shape it is. We're all human after all, even if some of us don't have the same natural advantages. Posted by Antiseptic, Friday, 30 August 2013 10:30:12 AM
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Australia's population, but what of the people
who created this diversity?
What is it like to have come from somewhere else
and settled in Australia? And what does being an
Australian really mean?
We're told that everyone has a story to tell - and
I thought it would be interesting to hear some of
them. The stories of the ups and downs of adapting
to life in Australia, and to provide a window on
the experience of leaving one home in order to create
another.
I'd like to hear from everyone - no matter what
their heritage and background.
It would be interesting to compare notes.
And to learn from each other.