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Forced adoptions of 40s and 50s
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My biological mother (I've since discovered) wasn't actually forced, but was actively persuaded (against her preference) to adopt me out. She stayed with a "nice" doctor and his family when she was 'with child" - and she assumed with a lot of advice from her aunties that that is the sort of family I would end up with.
Unfortunately I ended up in a family with an alcoholic gambler for a dad - and the "family" eventually shattered into a thousand pieces when I was eight. Of course it could have ended up totally opposite, but it didn't.
Anyway, when I was forty one I got a phone call from a woman I didn't know who told me she was my half sister. So I got a whole lot of info and (at last!) a sense of my own history, which I had sorely craved (Scottish heritage on my mum's side - my father was American, probably part American Indian, but I have hardly anything on him because my biological mother died a year before my sister rang)
When I learned all about my biological mother and her experience, it was her - not myself - that I had sympathy for.
Finally, all them "spawn" are actually "people" who inhabit your world. Some of them like to have the same sense of their antecedents as you take for granted.