GY:”The issue with "personal agendas" is that the thread that you started was entirely about your personal situation. It wasn't about an issue in general using your situation as an example, which might have been acceptable.”

Snap. Now I get it. Start with the issue then personal situation only as an example. Start with issue then personal situation only as an example. Start with…

Jinny:”Naughty is so much fun you just don't realize…”

Aw Jinny, I don’t realize? Really? (deep breath) In this context “naughty” is boring and childlike. Stamping your feet for answers isn’t quite the same as asking a question.

In my playroom often I tell a child to leave something alone or put something back etc and get the “but why” whinge and often I make a mistake of getting dragged in by explaining why instead of my usual “because I said so”.

Silly me find myself making the same mistake on line.

Here and like the children being told the why of something is a bonus because no one is obliged to explain anything.

Well said Belly. I’m happy with Foxy... but I read back and actually sound quite snide. Apologies Foxy.

Enjoy your golf DB!

Well thanks TPP and Blue,thanks GY lets not let it go on.
Just know some things are best unsaid.
Move on it is far better that we do, injury's can be self inflicted ones ,we all want to justify our opinions but some times silence is the best answer.
It has been a good thread TPP.

Belly:

We have all made mistakes. We have all done things that we wish we had not done. We have all missed opportunities and blown more of them than we care to admit. But the universe begins a new cycle whenever we are ready.

Lexi I am aware of that.
I very much doubt you know just what is behind my post.
I believe nothing can be gained from reopening old wounds.
But some things just have to be said.
Having done that, for the last time,I leave the subject.

Belly:

I was referring to myself not you in this instance. My apologies if I've caused offense.

I think we need a new discussion thread entitled "Jinny."