YAbby,

How many beautiful foreign women did you say were your soul mate.

Sheesh Cherful, sounds like you want me to write my life story here :)

So rather then write a book, I will try and sum it up this way:

I was not born in Australia, but have lived in Africa, Europe,
as a kid in the US, then moved to Australia in my 20s.

In that time I've been married once, but have landed up in relationships
with people from around the world, as well as a few
Australian scrubbers :) Perhaps because my thinking is international
and not like your typical Aussie fellow, such as yourself.

Clearly you think that the soulmate concept is nonsense. I guess we
would first have to define it. Various people have various definitions.

What constantly surprises me is when I have discussions with people
who are married, how little many of them actually know their partners,
keep secrets from their partners, or married their partner as she
was a good cook with nice tits. Fair enough, there are plenty who
want no more from a relationship.

Have you ever tried to go beyond that? Where you are in a relationship
with somebody, who knows your inner core, accepts
you as you are, where you can be totally honest, whom you respect
and admire, where you are tuned to the same mental frequency?

Its rare, but it does happen and when it does, its something
pretty special. I've had it happen, but never with an Australian.

Sounds like you've had a good life, Yabby.

That is wonderful you have had meaningful relationships Yabby with people from all over the world yet sad about those scrubbers who are not myself nor many of my other loving highly intelligent wonderfully warm sensual women I know (as my Australian friends single and married)of all ages.

Guess it depends where you meet women of any origin - 'environment' here is a golden key as I see it.

Yabby
I think we should vote for you to go on "Farmer wants a wife". There's bound to be an outdoors lady who would love the life of an outback WA farm just waiting for you. :)

Hehe Pelican, better yet, if you should one day perchance land
up single again, just give me a call :)