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By Melinda Tankard Reist, published 18/7/2008Why give photographs of your daughter to a magazine whose raison d’ętre was a defence of Bill Henson?
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I think this objection to the 'sexualisation' or 'premature sexualisation' of children is more about the adults than the children.
Children are NOT asexual. How can they be sexualized? I can remember having sexual thoughts and even obtaining erections at age 7, and I know many women who admit to humping their soft toys at a similar age. It's adults that cant deal with this reality, and want to 'protect' their children from sexual imagery and, well, reality basically.
The world is there for children to see, they have a sexuality of their own that develops as their mind and later their body does, and their parents are there to guide them in their interpretations of and reations to the world they see around them.
Anyone who sees an 8 year old pull faces and reject the 'mushy stuff' on the TV will know that the same child at 9 that wants to be grown up and wear lipstick is not being prematurely sexualised. They are developing in line with their current emotional and mental development and reacting to the reality they see around them. All children want to grow up and parents of individual children can best judge what a child is ready for.
So some would like to change the reality, or protect their child from reality, and good luck to them. But the rest of the world is under no obligation to change to fit into line with the reality they want to create for their child.
Regardless, I don't see anyone complaining about little boys wanting to be tough and strong. Learning to defend themselves and watching WWF and action movies. Society values male strength and female beauty. It must be terribly confusing for kids of parents who would rather lie to their kids and say it's not so, rather than admit it is so, but teach them they don't have to conform.