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'Reasonable fear of violence' unreasonable : Comments
By Patricia Merkin, published 30/3/2006The family law amendment changing from “fear” of violence to a “reasonable fear” of violence, is more than just sematics.
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"Think about why your relationship with your X fell apart in the first place. If you are as good a father as you say you are, if you believe yourself to be decent man, if you think you have never done anything wrong by your partner (X partner) ...... then why are you in the position you are in today."
This statement implies:
- that fathers are the only ones who are responsible for what goes wrong in a marriage.
- if your marriage does go bad then you can't have been a good parent.
- Mothers are always the virtuous ones when their marriages end.
This sort of self-righteous statement seems to be typical of statements coming from women who have a resentment towards men/fathers.