trade, true for some but there are also some really good women out there who behave as adults and there are some guys who are as sick as the women you describe (and your description rang true on a number of fronts).

It's far to easy to mistake our own experience for the whole. The extroardinary incidents are the ones we hear about or remember most.

It's also to easy to get manipulated into turning some of these issues into wars between good people as we seek to tell our side of the story and for all the horror stories some of us can tell about sick women there are women who have horror stories to tell about sick men.

In the end what many of us want is a surefire way of spotting the sick ones then avoiding them like the plague.

Cheers
R0bert