Sorry, speaking as a male of the species and not a rutting animal, it is possible to withdraw on demand and finish by hand.

Moreover, the Lady can roll and leave you at any time she is not subject to forced intercourse.

If it is not forced and as a mutual consent lovemaking, withdrawal is never a consideration, just the opposite.

I mean, men climax in about 5 minutes and females in about 15. Reverse roles may mean the female climaxes more often or at all.

As usual this author's pernicious pen is full of, shovelled by the shipload, sexualised, anti-female, money-making BS?
Alan B.

Don't want unwanted attention ? Dress & act accordingly !

I had a relationship with a girl who was date-raped as a virgin.
She told me the story a number of times about how she 'froze in fear'.
I know that this event started a chain of events that had a horrible impact on her life going forward, (and that if she could go back in time and fight him off she would)
- So where you say the 'science behind this theory is problematic', I'm certainly willing to accept that 'tonic immobility' is a real thing, (without having experienced it myself)

But that said, I thought all the other issues and arguments you made in the rest of the article in support of the mens position was important and at least somewhat valid.

I think it's fair to say that some men if just seconds away from orgasm are told to stop, they may not do so and try to finish.
I'm not necessarily defending it, but just trying to be a little realistic in the way at least some men would likely act in that situation.

Some men/animals.

My mother raised me to be a moral man, and said, before you have sex with a willing lady, ask yourself this question, do I want this lady to be the mother of my children.

If the answer is no, keep your pecker in your pants. Women being raped/violated do freeze in fear, a well-known phenomenon.

Opinion to the contrary, evidence of extreme ignorance/selective blindness/deafness.
Alan B.

So much for human's feeble and stupid attempt to duplicate justice with their limited intellect.

Justice is already being done,
justice which is already perfect and cannot be circumvented.

Man cannot change the laws of nature, set in motion by God:
the law of gravity works without fault - only an idiot would try to either undo or assist it,
so why do so many idiots try to assist the infallible law of karma,
thinking that it is not God but them who do the justice, or can do it better?

Practically all the porn I've watched, has the man pulling out and shooting hie load outside. "Men" not able to pull out, need to use a condom. To prevent their partner from becoming an unwilling incubator.

Which may mean the loss of a lucrative career or curtail professional studies that lead to a lucrative career.

If only men could get pregnant and carry a baby for 9 months, there'd be no date rapes or inebriated females being taken advantage of.

Men often claim she was dressed provocatively and therefore asking for it. That's BS from foreign cultures who see a bare leg and get a boner. And lose all control.

We Aussies with our summer beach habits and dress have become used to seeing women in skimpy bikinis. And able to control their reflex reactions. Habitual exposure/acclimatisation.

You come to our land and culture. Accept and practise it or go back where you came from.

Common curtesy, civility and good manners cost nothing, neither does behaving like a civilised gentleman.
Alan B.