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No enthusiasm for enthusiastic consent reforms : Comments

By Lorraine Finlay, published 26/7/2018

The problem here is that the something being considered may actually make things worse, not better.

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The biggest issue with No means No, is that 70% of human communication is non verbal. In other words it is body language, which cannot really be communicated through the written word.

For example;

They smiled a smirk as their lips said NO. no, No!

Their breathing was heavy, and they looked away, as they whispered no.

Their face was contort and red with anger, as they shouted NO!

The simple phrase of "give me a call sometime" has I believe 125 different meanings.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/subliminal/201205/how-we-communicate-through-body-language
Posted by Wolly B, Thursday, 26 July 2018 9:23:29 AM
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Bloody nanny state! If people can't interrelate with each other, laws on every move we make is not the answer. What happened to self-control? What happened to abstinence? Women used to be able to 'handle themselves'; men used to respect women. Not any more. Both sexes are now childish; they can't think for themselves or look after themselves; they never let go of mummy and daddy.
Posted by ttbn, Thursday, 26 July 2018 9:36:49 AM
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Personally, see no problem with an enthusiastic yes!

Besides, never ever had to ask!

When one put the Lady's pleasure first and knows where and when she likes to be touched!

I mean, study the erogenous zones. A man is aroused by visual stimuli, a woman by tactile stimulation.

Don't be in a hurry, just build and build the expectation as you progress lower? Then walk away if that what the gentleman inside dictates. you'll live!

This woman is somebody's daughter or sister. And were she your daughter or sister, what would expect, nay demand for her!?

It'll be her doing all the asking! It's easier than learning to play the violin.

Ask for role reversal and learn from that what she really likes as foreplay/Arousal strategy. You'll, more often than not, be surprised by the answers?

Finally, ask yourself, do I want this woman to be the mother of my children? And if you can't answer that in the affirmative

Then keep your pecker in your pants moron!
Alan B.
Posted by Alan B., Thursday, 26 July 2018 10:53:19 AM
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Another day another Liebral Worthy, ah the right Leaning world,hopeless in Govt in WA,hopeless in Canberra,Hopeless at controlling the serial National rooter/Rorter Barnaby Joyce
The Great Australian Bludger is Joyce
Posted by John Ryan, Thursday, 26 July 2018 12:04:56 PM
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No and alcohol don't mix....
Posted by diver dan, Thursday, 26 July 2018 6:46:07 PM
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I'd like to ask the ladies how do they give their consent to sexual activity?
Posted by Wolly B, Friday, 27 July 2018 8:06:32 AM
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