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'Died by Suicide' or 'Committed Suicide'? : Comments
By Brooke Murphy, published 7/6/2016The word 'committed' does not just mean that someone performed an action, but is connected with crime.
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Nobody knows what'll tip even the strongest over the edge. A young man his whole life in front of him suffers from a back injury that ends any hope of the career he'd worked toward his entire life and made him the passive partner in bed with the love of his life.
I wish I could have spoken to that young man before his Sweetheart found him swinging on the end of a rope; and told him that it's not over, that there's hope. Everyone has their dreams without which we are nothing!
And without a dream to believe in, we are bereft of that other pillar of mental stability, hope!
My mother who wept tears of joy, when I stepped up from the Ambo's wheelchair and walked into the house.
She used to say, God doesn't close one door without first opening another. And there's nothing like a supporting family; and a devoted and loyal spouse or lover to help you get over the tough times we all of us have to battle through from time to time. [And if you're ever privileged enough to see it, be prepared to be reduced to an over emoting whimpering wimp?]
I would have also told the young man about hyperbaric oxygen therapy and some of the almost miraculous results some folk seemed to be achieving if treated in a timely manner? Knowing that oxygen is implicated in all healing!
Finally I would have confided we all have our darkest hours when all seems lost and the voice in your head is busy feeding your negativity, with the usual lost cause rhetoric? And the very time you need to assert your authority and refuse to become a victim!
But rather add up what you still have and can still do. We all die and some far too soon, and in so many cases, when that break we were waiting for arrives as advice in the mail or a windfall sum of money that solves our insoluable problem, and would've if we just never quit!
Alan B.