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Empty adoptions' apology is based on half-truths : Comments
By Brendan O'Reilly, published 25/3/2013While aspects of these past practices can validly be criticised, the extent of revisionism and the implied criticism of those administering past adoptions simply goes too far.
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But I fail to see the problem with the apology... because an 'apology' is a sorry to a victim of 'their experience'. It's not about making excuses as you say sorry!
It was a 'sorry' to the children, and to the mothers. They got what they deserve... a belated 'acknowledgement' of their pain.
Their experience was a Human Rights Violation of epic proportions. (which barely existed back then... keeping it in context).
The thing I see missing here, which is missing in too many current situations... that of the irresponsible 'sperm donor'. Which of these 'mothers' were pressured unrelentingly by a boyfriend or raped against their will, by a father or other relation?
Who bailed out in 'taking responsibility' for the result of their 'pleasure'??
You mentioned: "There are also now virtually no children available for local adoption in Australia (only 45 nationally in 2010-11), though abortion is likely to also be a big influence."
.....maybe, but how is this relevent to an apology? (how dare young mothers demand to keep their own children, hmmmm??)
The churches were doing a great service of support... that which the men weren't taking up responsibility for!
And on that, the Government, in their obligatory role is managing to assist 'single mums' bring up the country's future citizens, (to some degree). "Some" stats do show children suffering in their single mum homes, sure. And who is to blame? ..good for nothing single mums! Where are the daddy's? .. they were violent, angry, had little morals or respect, they hurt me and the children, he doesn't help with child rearing.... but it's still mum's fault for managing so badly!
...are you getting the picture of the 'current context' of the life of Responsibility for single mums and their children's wellbeing... and the Governments (responsibility) is to support them, WHY? ...many father's lack of ABILITY to RESPOND to the needs of others, their children & the rights of their children's mothers to be supported and respected etc etc.
Just saying!