The amazing increase in the volume of sales of vibrators and dildos are a symptom of the rampant misandry in society where women reduce the value of a man to just his penis, or a tool for their own orgasm.

They objectify men in this way as they are afraid of the all to real desires of real flesh and blood men, men with their own sexuality and their own thoughts and feelings. The widespread use of these devices has terrible consequences for male body image, as how many men can compete with these unrealistic and unattainable 12 inch dildos and super fast vibrators.

Women bring into their relationships with men these unrealistic expectations about the speed of which men should be able to bring them to orgasm by measuring against these mechanical means. This creates a barrier in relationships between men and women, with many married women using the devices in secret and therefore leading a double life.

The inevitable ruptured attachment and a loss of trust leads to the destruction of so many relationships.

As Ben Dover, a clinical psychologist and sex addiction expert notes, "This mutual scenario ... is not the predominant experience". Most married women who are using vibes, are doing so in secret and maintaining this duplicity in the knowledge that it's distressing to their partners.

One of Schlong's research participants, who after lamenting her husband's putative sexual potency goes on to recount the following scenario:

.. So when he's asleep I turn to my vibe, which is always hard and ready, and makes no demands of me. I know it's not real and it's not fair to expect my husband to compete with these devices, but this is what I love and get off on. I'll do it for up to an hour, slowly, going from speed to speed, while my husband is sound asleep, or worried about mosquitoes. I can take as long as I want and get lost in my own world.

PS: If all porn can be represented as violent porn then the hyperbowl of 12 inch dildos is fair play.

Gee Houelly, I have always found ladies are always a little frightened of 12 inches, at least at first.
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I tips me lid, Houellebecq.

A most complete response, perfect in every detail.

That's gold Houllebecq. XD

You should expand it and see if Graham will post it as an article.

If a feminist wrote an article like this I have no doubt it would be slammed by other feminists for dictating what other women do with their own bodies and how they choose to enjoy their sexuality. Some of the more extreme commentators might compare a husband's distress over his wife's sybian saddle to spousal rape. And the word patriarchy would be used about a thousand times.

It would be interesting to see how the lurking but silent horde of feminists Killarney assures us exist would take such an article when it is written by a man.

Cheers,

Tony

oooh! Poor boys and girls defending their upright positions against mothers’ pandering to their daughters’ peer pressure demands - women’s fault. Again.

Is it the case that only defenders of patriarchal porn remain at The Forum? Are you still there Killarney – and do you know who that poor weedy little bloke is? The last time I saw him he was storytelling at The Glass Canoe!

I try to be as evenhanded as possible in all situations, Athene… And though I don't know anything about your reference to the little man in a Canoe, would it be helpful to declare myself a defender of matriarchal porn?