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By Peter West, published 7/10/2010There’s lots of evidence that young men are in trouble. Boys look for good role models but what do they see?
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They harden up and deal with it.
I would make the point that it's much more difficult for male teachers to work these days than female ones, so Houellebecq makes a reasonable point there.
I don't blame this on 'feminised' schools though, which seems like a copout to me. I'd say that this is the result of a number of factors, the first being that today people are more likely to complain about sexual abuse and the media is more likely to report it. Combine this with a cotton-wool pampering attitude from parents and the result is helicopter parenting and hysteria, meaning that an accusation from a female student toward a male teacher is likely to stick, regardless of whether or not the teacher is in the wrong.
This is indeed tragic, but whinging about feminised systems or trying to pretend that women are just as likely to commit sexual assault just distracts people from the real issues.
Regarding the students, ultimately, I come back to personal responsibility.
Some kids will grow up. Some won't. That comes down to them and the efforts by their parents.