Indi, its not a matter of proving you wrong. What's there to prove? Your diatribe above is just that, a diatribe. You are a great percentage man. I recall you famously said "85% agree with me". So what is the percentage of mums in the pub etc?
You have a particular perception of welfare recipients, which no doubt has coloured your opinion of these people, along with your particular brand of conservatism and innate hatred of such people. Add to this your unwavering belief in the rightness of your thinking and nothing will change your mind.

Paul1405,
that's not an answer, that's a cheap unintelligent attempt to avoid the issue.