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By Mal Fletcher, published 3/11/2015Might a perceived rise in the popularity of gender realignment among children be due to the fact that parents are confused about how gender identity emerges in the first place?
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Could this be that for most people any discussion triggers doubts they have about their own attitudes to sex and gender? They do not want to explore that area of their humanity because they may find things about themselves that are too painful to look at. A culture develops which says I will not question your sexual behaviour if you do not question mine.
Not every behaviour that people indulge in is in their own best interest. Often such behaviour is an attempt to meet emotional needs in ways that can never satisfy. Alcoholism, drug taking, gambling, work addiction and such behaviours are often substitutes for emotional satisfaction. Probably the most common way of ‘acting out’ is in the area of sexuality. This could well be because it is mainly done in private where there is not too much danger of being censured or ridiculed.
It is easy to say what does it matter to anyone else what people do in private but it does matter because if those people are not emotionally satisfied then there are repercussions for all those with whom they live and work. If they are in positions of power then it can have far-reaching consequences.
If we refuse to have frank discussions about such behaviour then those who are stuck in a hole have no hope. Without being challenged they become isolated and this is the very thing they are trying to avoid. It may be painful to hear things they do not want to hear but it is less painful than total isolation. It may also be painful for some of us to allow discussion on these topics but burying our head in the sand is no answer.