Dear Banjo,

What does a person's private sex life have to do with
the issue of marriage?

We don't judge what heterosexual couples do in the
privacy of their bedroom before granting them the
right to marry so why should we make it our business
to judge anyone else? As long as it is between two
consenting adults and doesn't
hurt anyone else - it frankly is none of our business.
And calling anyone by derogatory names is rather
rude. That is something that most people were taught not
to do - at
a very early age. Also why make assumptions and
generalisations about what kind of sex practices people
engage in. When words such as "dirty" and "disgusting"
and "these queers"
come into play in this discussion it is not an indication
of someone who is willing to engage in issues seriously
and thoughtfully as AJ pointed out earlier.