If any doctor or expert here then plz help me in using birth control options particularly in North India.
tell me the options and which one could be the best option
i have 1 child and my wife got it through a big operation. Doctor has suggested to not to give a 2nd birth 3 years.
thanks

Shorbe,
Your post must be about the most insensitive that I've seen around here in quite a while.

Apurva. I'll get back later.

The usual options for spacing pregancies include use of the oral contraceptive pill, intrauterine contraceptive devices (IUCDs), and barrier methods such as condoms. Each of these methods require you understand how to use them properly.

Different methods suit different people. It is important that you and your wife both go and see a doctor to discuss which method would suit you both, and to make sure you fully understand how to make your chosen contraceptive method work.

some IUD are best for long term, as some of them can be left in for a few years or more...
but you do have to see a doctor to replace them, and to put one in

condoms next on the list

yes a womans and mans sexual protection is difficult, anytime,
anywhere.....and in all countries

the ovulation method is good too.... but difficult to sort in some cases....

there is also a tubal.... fairly permanent.... where they do an op
for women so they cant have children.....
I had one at 40 or so.....

pills, hormone.... I will not touch....myself...
they should only be used for medical cases requiring them
in my opinion

I am not a doctor..... just experience and life

JHH

Is Mise: Thank you.

apurva,
Here's a link to products made with Neem oil
http://www.sisterzeus.com/neem.html
There is also a lot of info on Google.

Apurva:

If you are able to see a doctor there is an injection called DE-Provera that can be given to your wife which will give her pregnancy protection for three months after which time it has to given again to last another three months.

I am not a doctor but I have worked in a doctors office.

Condoms are great as they are not chemical. The "depo" drug once had a theory that linked it to cancer. I don't like any such risk.

I know that anti-depressives tend to take away sex drive. They take away the urge and the ability to ejaculate. You won't get depressed either, they are anti-depressives. To be real, you need to see the doctor.

Your wife needs a good rest for a few years. That is not a long time. If you are Hindu or Buddhist, you would understand the principle to hold on and be patient with no desire, and there will be no destination but many diversities. May happiness be yours, and I think you will have another child in about 4 years.