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By Katy Barnett, published 7/10/2009Keysar Trad: 'A man can have multiple girlfriends. Why not formalise that into a commitment for life? Why should 'bigamy' be a crime?'
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IMO the major issues with the law in this context are:
- its sexually/gender aspects are far too emphasised and would appear are religiously influenced culturally based.
- it relies on black letter law and precedents. Rife for abuse.
Generally speaking most people are unable/unwilling to think outside this bias. Consequently I doubt that any substantial change will happen in the near future.
Having now declared my self a heretic, and in that context I can see no rational
reason not to legalise all three homosexual 'marriage', polygamy or polyandry for the reasons you gave.
That doesn't mean I don't see need for imposed conditions .
The most obvious it that ALL the people involved do so willingly and in full knowledge of the others and the exclusion of power abuses. Including forced arranged marriages, psychological abuse (sects) etc.
I see issues with social security and consequences for the children beyond public acceptance but in case of part-time dad/mum role models.
The big issue would be where to draw the line a good example is e.g. that man 50 something who had/has 6-7 de facto wives ranging from legal age to 35 and 24 children all effectively on social security.
If one considers the extreme end of Mormon (the polygamy sect) and extrapolate that the above would be common.
The angry diarrhoeic elephants in the corner would be, population limits of Aust and
the burden on the social security system.
I doubt that families of this complexity/size would be generally self funding.
All these issues render the idea politically too hard.
PS Given our family coven with a wife, my mother, two daughter, two sisters in law (one a nun) and a niece provide more than enough criticism/examination of my failings as it is .... if Polygamy became legal, I for one won't be availing myself of the facility, (self preservation) :-0 .