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'Innovative' definitions of 'family' flout history : Comments
By Bill Muehlenberg, published 6/12/2004Bill Muehlenberg argues that family is mum, dad and their children.
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Its highly reductionistic to measure the worth of a relationship from its reproductive value. So a couple with 10 kids are more valuable than a couple with 2???? Or is it a simply a case of any old excuse to maintain your own power??????
Most people respect homosexual unions, even though they would not be willing to grant them the same status as heterosexual unions. We are living in a time of social conservatism - of course people would not want something marriage changed in such a plural, confusing world.
I would also be interested to know about you DM. I take it you are a male, but are you a Christians - if so, what church?, how old are you, what level of education have you reached?? What are your general attitudes to homosexuality??? Do you believe that homosexuality is inherently wrong, or do you just think they should not be allowed to get married.
I really don't think the 'gay community' is a polar extreme from the heterosexual world as you would think. There are people attracted to the same-sex right throughout the community who have nothing to do with the gay community (which I take it you imagine as a group of flowery, lispy, drug-taking polygamists somewhere in the inner-city). They are normal, everyday people who are part of our workplaces, our sporting teams and our churches. I guess its only natural that they would want full-citizenship and don't see how this would send their married next-door neighbours into crisis. The other thing that you should be aware of - NOT ALL GAY PEOPLE HAVE AIDS. I don't mean to be patronising, but your thoughts on this issue would advance considerably if you thought as gay people as something other than some early 1990s gay mardi-gras stereotype. Gay people and society have moved on, you can too!!!!!! I actually think gay and straight people could live well together without these invented categories if gay people were given full-rights and therefore didn't have to huddle together in ghettos.
I might be wrong, but I kind of get the impression you have never really met any gay people or had any friends who are gay people. Could you look a friend in the eye and tell them they were a second-class citizen??
May I ask that you spend some time actually considering your own motives on the issue. And please do not make this a consipiracy issue about how 'gay people with AIDS dominate the media and the law professions'. Lets face it, you are discriminating against people - you are just using what you consider to be 'facts' to justify this. By saying one group in society can have one set of privledges and another cannot, based simply on who they are, is discrimination - not matter how you justify this.
I am sad that as a society we are still so unenlightened on this issue.