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Love or livelihood: a cruel dilemma for those of us with extreme disabilities : Comments
By David Heckendorf, published 6/5/2014In spite of all the obstacles, if I had it all to do again, I would still marry Jenni, but it would be more economical, to reject the marriage and employment options as a cruel joke.
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The little athletics moved to a larger village with existing facilities, & more pull to get council money. It meant about 3/4 of our kids no longer had access to athletics.
Have you ever tried to raise $26,000 in a small community, particularly after having raised $17,000 for the power in the months before? No I thought not. Disabled appear to always have their hand out for taxpayer money.
Then when they realised that even then, another $40,000 would be required for a separate toilet block to fit the disabled toilet, it was too much for the soccer people. They gave up.
The whole thing was not a requirement of the pony club. We had a "long drop" bush toilet, a couple of containers for storage, & a covered area for organisation. We were involved in the work & fund raising because that is what you do in a village.
I am no longer involved, but I see the house has been painted & maintained. There is still a quarter built ramp, & the entrance is up a pile of old railway sleepers. As they don't use the thing, it is nice of the horse people to stop it from deteriorating. Someone may use it some day.
It is also a good edifice to the selfishness of the disabled, who demand everyone else spend money they don't have on things they don't need, or want, just incase some "disabled" wants to use it some time.