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The early years affect the later years so let's aim high : Comments
By Susan Irvine, published 16/5/2013There is a huge body of international research that shows every dollar invested in quality child care pays a dividend of $7 to $20 that doesn't have to be spent later in welfare, jails and hospitals.
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My oldest son, approaching 9 in September, born when my wife and I had been (wife, up until approximately 2 months prior to giving birth) working full-time.
I continued in this employment, working from 7am until 6pm and up to 3 days per week until 9pm.
My wife, as part of her employment agreement, as a Paramedic (shift-work), returned to work when my son was 7 months old, we were both fortunate to have extended family and flexibility in our arrangements, but despite this we put our son into day-care at age 9 months.
Is he normal, is he functional, is he damaged by 'his' experience in the day-care system, probably too early to tell, but he has just sat his year 3 NAPLAN tests and by all accounts fits well in the educational 'system'. He is by our count, well adjusted, inquisitive and pretty clever compared to some of his peers.
Our other son, just turned six in April, is in my view, immature for his age, hard to work with in any rational sense of the norm and is a complete challenge for his current teacher, despite attending Kindergarten, Pre-Primary School, and now his first year of 'so-called' school.
Second child, just mentioned, did go to day-care, but started at aged 3 and for just one day per week. He was socially different to his brother and I would suggest more influenced by his brothers presence, i.e. competitive.
Our home life has changed little; our financial situation has changed little other than we both earn more, according to statistics, although I would argue otherwise given true, updated, CPI figures for Perth.
Are they different, damn right they are, I would suggest DNA and a different set of circumstances had a lot to play in their development to date.
As to aiming high, I would ask 'who is setting the bar, and why'.
We need to remember 'everyone is different', get used to this fact and the nonsensical theoretical lesson from the Academic will fade into irrelevance quite quickly.