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Elder abuse – a reality that we cannot ignore : Comments
By Paul Russell, published 3/11/2011Voluntary euthanasia may well give those who abuse their parents an even more extreme tool of abuse than they have now.
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My 98 year old mother was still living a semi independent life in her self contained granny flat, beside my home. Sure we provided her meals, & did the cleaning, & we had in home care helping with showering 3 times a week, but she was independent otherwise, doing her own thing, & in contact with her unfortunately diminishing circle of friends.
When she suffered a bleeding ulcer she was admitted to the nearest large hospital. The doctors were excellent. In a couple of days she was sitting up, all bright eyed & bushy tailed, demanding a mirror, & cosmetics. Old ladies must have their lipstick on when in public, don't you know.
I wanted to take her home on Friday, but the physiotherapist's said no. She was not yes strong enough to get out of bed unaided, & required another day or two.
Unfortunately the weekend staff did not bother to find out that she was bed bound. They forgot to feed or water her throughout Saturday. At 11 am Sunday her table was out of her reach, with Saturday, lunch & dinner, Sunday breakfast, 4 packs of the specially thickened water they had prescribed, & a cup of cold tea all there.
She was shriveled like a prune, & incoherent. You probably heard my explosion, it was not quiet.
She never walked again, & spent 2 unhappy bed bound months in a very good nursing home before she went.
She wanted to come home, but I was not enough to handle her. I needed a lot of help to get her into, & out of a car for an outing.
So if you want to get rid of your oldie, try the Queensland health service. Success is almost assured.