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Objectification at whatever size : Comments
By Melinda Tankard Reist, published 5/7/2010New 'Body Image Code': it’s a start, but sexualisation and objectification still rule.
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No one can make a woman feel anything she does not want to feel. Women who get upset because they do not look like models are basically insecure to begin with. Some women are more beautiful than other women and that is a fact. Some are also taller, can run faster, cook better and understand nuclear physics better than other women. No one feels inadequate when someone knows more than them or can do things better than them so why should it bother them that some women look better than them. It is a fact of life that we all have different attributes or skills or even looks. It only becomes a problem when a woman does not accept her own differences and is not comfortable with who she is as a person. Instead of learning acceptance of the wide variety of things that make up a human being some women want to shift the blame onto the advertising or beauty industry or anyone who ‘objectifies’ a woman. If you see a woman just as a sportsperson is that also objectification? Couldn’t you say that the media objectify women when they only focus on their sporting prowess?
The problem is not with beauty; it is that some people cannot just appreciate it for what it is and then move on to the next thing in their lives. It is much easier to blame some one else than it is to take responsibility for your own feelings of inadequacy and do something about changing those.